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Flying to the Movies?

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Last week I flew from Dallas to Colorado Springs to… see a movie.

I’ll start by acknowledging the privilege and frivolity involved here. The idea of flying to another state, spending the night, watching a movie, and then turning around and flying home sounds pretty ridiculous on its face.

So why did I do it?

Chasing Another Companion Pass

The Southwest Companion Pass has been called one of the best deals in the travel hacking world, and for Katie and me it has certainly lived up to that reputation. One or the other of us has had a pass for most of the past ten years, and we have probably gotten more than 100 free flights from it.

I’ve never tried very hard to calculate how much money we “saved” because that isn’t really how we used it. Many of those were trips we never would have taken if we had needed to buy a second ticket. The Companion Pass gave us the freedom to take more trips, add a weekend somewhere, or have Katie tag along when I was already traveling for work.

Looking ahead, though, I’m not sure it will continue to be as valuable for us. I’m flying less for work, which means fewer opportunities to bring Katie along on a reimbursed ticket, and changes to Southwest and the associated Chase credit card programs have made earning the pass more difficult and using it less attractive.

That made a recent Southwest promotion interesting. The rules were pretty simple. Register for the promotion, book a qualifying round trip or two one-way flights by August 6, and complete the travel by November 18. In return, I could earn a promotional Companion Pass valid from January 5 through March 3, 2027.

The math seemed pretty straightforward. If I could complete a relatively inexpensive trip now and save more than that amount on Katie’s flights next year, I would come out ahead.

We already have several trips in mind for early 2027, including Hawaii, so finding more than $200 of value from the pass shouldn’t be difficult.

Now I just needed somewhere to go.

The Mileage Run

I started by looking for a simple mileage run from Dallas Love Field. Houston? Austin? Lubbock? Fly somewhere, turn around, and come home.

Unfortunately, last-minute fares on the shortest routes were higher than I expected.

Then I found Colorado Springs.

I could fly there for about $250 and come straight home, but if I stayed overnight and returned the next day, the airfare dropped to about $200. Normally the cost of a hotel would wipe out the savings, but I had a free-night certificate that was about to expire anyway.

Suddenly, I had an overnight trip to Colorado Springs.

Now I just needed something to do.

Wait… There’s an IMAX Theater?

Katie and I had just visited Colorado Springs, so I wasn’t particularly interested in repeating the tourist stops we had done a few weeks earlier. It was also really hot, and with less than a day to acclimate to the altitude, a long hike didn’t sound particularly appealing.

Then I remembered something a local had told me during our previous visit.

Colorado Springs has one of only 26 theaters in the United States capable of showing movies in 70mm IMAX. Dallas has one too, but tickets for The Odyssey had been sold out for months. Our son managed to get one, but he was sitting in the corner of the front row for a 2:30 AM showing!

On a whim, I checked Colorado Springs. Plenty of seats. Apparently, when you live next to mountains, hiking trails, and the Garden of the Gods, sitting inside a movie theater isn’t quite as exciting. 🙂

For my purposes, though, it was perfect.

So What Did This Actually Cost?

Here was the damage:

  • Round-trip flight from Dallas to Colorado Springs: $200
  • Hotel: free with an expiring certificate
  • Lyft between the airport, hotel, and theater: $39, minus a $10 Sapphire Reserve credit
  • Movie ticket: $25

That put my out-of-pocket cost at about $254.

In exchange, I earned a promotional Companion Pass that I should be able to use for several flights during the first two months of 2027. Based on the trips we are considering, I estimate that Katie’s tickets during that period could easily cost $1,500 to $1,800.

Of course, that doesn’t mean I “made” $1,500 by going to a movie. We have to actually take those flights for the savings to be real, and there was still a very real $254 charged to our credit  card this week.

But I like my odds. 🙂

Was This Really About Saving Money?

I am certainly not recommending that everyone start flying to other states to see movies in the name of financial responsibility.

There were other factors at play.

It is August in Texas. Temperatures are routinely over 100 degrees, school has started again, and even our local pool has reduced its hours. I had been home for a while and was getting restless waiting for our Fall travels to start.

So I spent $254, got a quick adventure, used a hotel certificate before it expired, saw a movie in a format I couldn’t easily see at home, and potentially unlocked $1,500 or more of future travel.

That seems like a pretty good trade to me.

It also illustrates a few things I enjoy about financial independence and travel hacking. One is simple arbitrage. Sometimes spending a little money today creates an opportunity to save considerably more later. Another is learning how the programs you use actually work and looking for opportunities around the edges. Promotions, points, credits, certificates, and loyalty programs can be stacked together in ways that create some pretty interesting possibilities.

Most importantly, though, financial independence has given us the freedom to occasionally do something just because it sounds fun.

Years ago, taking a random overnight trip in the middle of the week would have required vacation days, schedule juggling, and probably more justification than I was willing to give it. Today, I can see an interesting opportunity, do the math, check my calendar, and occasionally say, “Why not?”

Was flying to Colorado Springs to see a movie necessary?

Absolutely not.

Was it the most efficient possible use of $254?

Probably not that either.

But I had a great little adventure, and if Katie ends up flying to Hawaii for free because of it, I suspect I’ll feel even better about the decision. 🙂

Why Marriott?

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When I first started traveling for work, it was with a new company, and it took a while for us to figure out the best types of hotels for overnight trips. After a few “profit-maximizing” decisions led to some questionable stays, we started to develop a few basic rules:

  • No hotels with a number in the name
  • If the front desk clerk is behind bulletproof glass, move on
  • No chains with a misspelling in their title
  • No hotels where you have to park directly outside your room
  • Avoid places where the TV remote is bolted to the counter

These guidelines weren’t perfect, but they helped us avoid some… memorable experiences.

Beyond that, over time I started gravitating toward a single hotel brand for most of my travel. Brand loyalty makes a lot of sense when you’re on the road frequently. There is less friction when selecting and booking with brands you are familiar with.  Plus concentrating your stays allows you to build status and unlock perks that you simply won’t get if you spread your business around.

I experimented with Hilton for a while. It’s very easy to earn status, and their points accumulate quickly. The downside is that those points just aren’t worth that much, which makes redeeming them less appealing. It’s a large chain, but early on there were also a few key locations where Hilton didn’t have great options near my clients.

I’ve always liked Hyatt. In many ways, it’s the best value for redeeming points, especially in premium locations (although this may be changing with recent devaluations and a move to a tiered redemption system). For years, it was often cheaper to stay at a Hyatt using points than to use points or pay cash with any other brand.  Add in no resort fees on point stays and strong customer service, and it’s a compelling option. The challenge is scale. Hyatt simply doesn’t have as many locations, especially at the lower-cost, business-travel end of the spectrum. And earning meaningful status with Hyatt can be more difficult.

That led me to Marriott.

The biggest factor is footprint. No matter where I go, there’s almost always a Marriott option (or multiple) nearby. That matters when your travel schedule isn’t just built around vacation destinations but around where the work is.

Second is reliability. You generally know what you’re going to get. When you’re bouncing from city to city, that consistency matters more than you might expect.  I know that when I stay at a Courtyard, for example, that they will have reliable free internet, a business center where I can print as much as I need, and a restaurant on property that has a burger I like and can get for free with my welcome gift.  Knowing things like that when I roll into a new city can relieve a lot of anxiety about work preparation.

A nice bonus is the range of price points. Marriott has everything from basic, budget and business options to family friendly choices up to full-service and luxury properties. That flexibility makes it easy to match the hotel to the purpose of the trip.

Last time I checked, my lifetime total at Marriott properties was over 1100 nights.  The bulk of those were work trips where I typically ended up staying in dozens of different Fairfields and Courtyards all over the country. Over time, that has added up to Lifetime Platinum status. That gets me welcome gifts, bonus points, late checkout, and the occasional room upgrade. None of those perks by themselves are life-changing, but together they make travel a little easier, a little cheaper, and a little more comfortable.

These days, even when I’m traveling for personal trips, Marriott is usually my starting point. I still shop around, but once you factor in status benefits, familiarity, and convenience, it’s often the best overall option.  There are things I like about other brands, and I still use them occasionally. But for me, Marriott has the best balance of location, availability, price range, and rewards. 

It’s not perfect, but it’s consistently good. When you travel a lot, that might be the most important thing.

Smaller is Better Continued (State Parks)

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We recently spent a day at Huntington Beach State Park, and it reminded us of something we don’t think gets talked about enough. We have always loved national parks, and if a place earns that designation it is almost always worth visiting. But on this trip, we were reminded that state parks often offer many of the same benefits with fewer crowds, lower costs, and a more relaxed experience.

First Impressions

Huntington Beach sat just south of Myrtle Beach and felt like a completely different world almost as soon as we entered. There were no long lines or chaotic parking lots, just a simple gate and a modest entrance fee. It cost $8 per person to get in, which immediately felt like a bargain compared to most attractions in the area.

Variety in a Small Space

What stood out was how much variety the park packed into a relatively small space. In one visit, we walked along a wide, uncrowded beach, explored marsh boardwalks, and hiked through maritime forest. The transitions between these environments happened quickly, which made the experience feel dynamic without requiring multiple days of planning or driving.

Wildlife Highlights

The wildlife ended up being one of the biggest highlights. Huntington Beach is known for birding, but the most memorable encounters for us were the alligators. We saw dozens in the freshwater ponds and marsh areas, sometimes just off the trail. (We also learned that crouching down for pictures is not recommended.) Being that close to wildlife was both fascinating and a little humbling. Along the way we also saw herons, egrets, pelicans, and more turtles than we could count. By the end of the visit, it felt less like a park and more like a living ecosystem that we got to step into for the day.

Atalaya Castle

One of the more unexpected features of the park was Atalaya Castle. Built in the 1930s by Archer and Anna Hyatt Huntington, this Moorish-style winter home sat right in the middle of the preserve. For an additional $2 per person, we explored the grounds and walked through its open courtyards and rooms. It was not a polished, highly curated experience, but for us that was part of the appeal. It added a layer of history that complemented the natural surroundings and made the visit feel more complete.

State Parks vs National Parks

This trip helped clarify something we have been thinking about for a while. National parks tend to offer larger, more iconic landscapes along with more infrastructure and more crowds. State parks, on the other hand, are usually smaller, less expensive, and easier to navigate. They also tend to feel more accessible and less rushed. Another advantage became obvious as we traveled more. There are far more state parks than national parks, and in places like South Carolina, where Congaree is the only national park nearby, they provide more frequent opportunities to get outside and explore.

The Financial Angle

From a financial independence perspective, the value was hard to beat. Ten dollars per person covered entry and the castle and gave us a full day of beach, trails, wildlife, and history. We packed a picnic, so there were no expensive add-ons or pressure to spend more once we were there. The simplicity of the experience kept the cost low.

The Bigger Lesson

This fits a pattern we have been seeing throughout our travels. Smaller zoo experiences often felt more enjoyable than the biggest ones. Eating earlier often provided the same experience at a lower cost. Local recreation options often replaced more expensive memberships. Now we could add state parks to that list. We will continue to visit national parks because they offer something unique and memorable, but places like Huntington Beach reminded us that we did not always need the biggest or most famous destination to have a meaningful experience. Sometimes a quiet trail, a view of the water, some wildlife (and a healthy respect for alligators 🙂  is more than enough.

Your Turn

Have you found places where the simpler option turned out to be just as good or even better than the big-name destination?

Five Nights, Five Marriotts

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Typically when we’re on the road, we stay at low- to mid-range chain hotels. We used to go for the absolute cheapest option. After all, we’re really only there to clean up and sleep before heading to the next destination.  But this is one area where we’ve relaxed a bit. Years of business travel taught me that trying to save a few dollars on a no-name hotel can make the next day miserable if you don’t sleep well. The consistency of a known brand also makes life on the road a lot easier.

On this road trip, I decided to challenge my habits and run a bit of an experiment. Instead of sticking with our usual go-to, we switched it up when possible. It didn’t hurt that Marriott was running a promo where I earned bonus points and elite night credits for each different brand. That meant this cross-country trip turned into five Marriott brands in five consecutive nights.

Same loyalty program. Very different experiences.

AC Hotel – Asheville, NC ($129)

I picked this one for the location and because it’s not a brand I stay at often. AC Hotels lean into a modern, European-inspired aesthetic. Clean design (Katie called it “minimalist”), smaller but efficient rooms, and a focus on shared spaces instead of oversized rooms.

I had some work to do, and the “AC Library” gave me a great space outside the room. We got a $10-per-person welcome credit, which we turned into locally made cookies and popcorn. They also waived the usual $22 parking fee.

A few minor negatives: I’m not a fan of sliding barn doors on bathrooms, and Katie didn’t love the sofa. But the balcony, rain shower, and long bench for suitcase living were all big positives.

Funny story: we scheduled a late checkout so I could return and work after dropping Katie at the Biltmore. When I came back, the overzealous housekeeping crew had already stripped the beds and started cleaning the room. The front desk apologized, gave me some bonus points, and set me up in a media room normally reserved for meetings. It ended up being a better workspace than the room would have been so… win/win 🙂 

Fairfield Inn & Suites – Cherokee, NC ($122)

I’ve stayed at this brand… a lot. Fairfield is one of Marriott’s more affordable options, focused on simplicity and consistency. Clean rooms, free breakfast, and not much else.  It was also the only Marriott option near the park entrance, so it won by default.

The room was clean, and the breakfast was actually better than expected. Eggs that weren’t rubbery, a good selection of Greek yogurt, and real oatmeal with toppings. Not amazing, but solid.

The Wayback (Tribute Portfolio) – Pigeon Forge, TN ($98)

This one caught my attention online. Retro roadside motel vibe, bright colors, lots of social spaces. I was a little skeptical, but it turned out to be a fun property that fit the Pigeon Forge atmosphere perfectly. I don’t love exterior doors, but ours opened into a courtyard overlooking a pool, hot tub, and even an Airstream bar instead of out onto the main road.

The breakfast (a welcome gift) was made-to-order instead of a buffet, which was a nice surprise. A couple of minor issues with the bathroom door and a double charge that was quickly fixed, but overall a fun and unique stay.

SpringHill Suites – Bowling Green, KY ($193)

When traveling with the kids, we used to prioritize all-suite properties like SpringHill. Extra space, separate living areas, and free breakfast made a big difference.

The extra space is not as important when it is just the two of us, especially for a one night stay, but I chose this location because it was only a little more expensive than a brand with smaller rooms and it was located a little more conveniently to our next stop, the Mammoth Cave National Park.

The extra room was nice, but the property wasn’t the cleanest we’ve stayed in. The staff was friendly and responsive, though, and the bar came in handy for grabbing limes for the rest of the trip 🙂

Courtyard – Little Rock, AR ($146)

Courtyard is probably the Marriott brand I’ve stayed at the most when traveling for work. It’s designed for business travelers and sits right in the middle between budget and full-service. It typically features comfortable rooms, flexible workspaces, and an on-site bistro for made-to-order food and drinks instead of a traditional free breakfast.  That all works for me because I don’t typically eat breakfast on work trips, but I do sometimes need the business center options.  And, at the risk of sounding like a grumpy old man… because of their target demographics, at Courtyards it is rare to have kids running around, screaming, or dripping all over the elevator on their way out of the pool like you sometimes see in family focused hotels.

We chose this one for a calm final night on the road.  This property is located downtown, but is super convenient to the highway so we knew that we could duck in, get a nice clean room in a probably quiet hotel, and hit the road again in the morning.  No muss, no fuss. 

Bonus points for the fitness center, which was larger than usual since it’s shared with other businesses. After a long day of driving and exploring Mammoth Cave, I needed it.

Final Totals

Here’s how the numbers shook out:

  • AC Hotel: $129
  • Fairfield: $122
  • Wayback: $98
  • SpringHill Suites: $193
  • Courtyard: $146

Total: $688 for five nights
 Average: ~$138 per night

That’s a little below our $150/night target for this kind of travel.  At each hotel I received welcome gifts ranging from water  bottles and free parking, to $20 credits, to free breakfast.  We also earned roughly 25,000 Marriott points, which is about enough for a free night at a similar-level property.  Because of the promo, I also earned a lot of elite night credits which will help achieve Titanium level (and yet another free night certificate).

On top of that, I paid with my Chase Sapphire Reserve at 4x points, earning about 2,750 Chase points (4x on $688). That’s not life-changing, but those points are transferable and generally considered to be much more valuable than the Marriott points.  it layers on another small layer of value, enough to contribute toward a future flight or hotel stay.

The Bigger Takeaway

Spending five nights across five different brands was a great reminder of how wide the range is within a single hotel chain. Each property served a different purpose, and none of them were “better” in a vacuum. They were just better or worse depending on what we needed that night.

Some nights called for space.  Some called for convenience.  Some called for price.

That’s one of the real advantages of sticking with a larger brand like Marriott. It’s not about always picking the nicest option. It’s about picking the right option for the situation.

Sometimes, the best trip isn’t about consistency. It’s about variety.

National Parks: America’s Best Travel Bargain?

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National parks are amazing.  Nature. Beauty. Solitude.

When a country decides that a particular place is so unique that it deserves to be preserved at the national level, that’s a pretty good signal that it’s worth visiting. You’re very unlikely to be disappointed no matter which parkland you set your sights on.

It doesn’t hurt that national parks are also some of the most affordable places to travel. After all, nobody had to build expensive roller coasters or animatronic dinosaurs to convince people to come see the Grand Canyon or hike through Yellowstone. The appeal is completely natural. And many of the costs that do exist are taxpayer-supported, which means access is surprisingly inexpensive. In fact, for about $80 you can buy an annual National Parks pass that covers entry to almost every national park in the country for an entire year. Visit just three or four parks and the pass practically pays for itself.  That’s a pretty good travel deal.

The Ones We Missed

Sometimes I regret that during our whirlwind quest to get our boys to all 50 states before they graduated high school, we were often moving too quickly to detour into national parks, but when you’re trying to knock out a lot of states in a limited time, efficiency starts to win over exploration.

As a result, my personal national park count is only 13 out of the 63 parks currently in the system. That number always feels a little low when I see maps from people who have visited all of them.

Right now, though, I’m okay with that.There are some amazing people documenting their journeys through every national park (like Renee Roaming or the couple behind Trip of a Lifestyle). I love following their adventures, but visiting all 63 parks isn’t our immediate goal. For now, we’re happy to encounter them organically as part of our slomadic journey.

A Day Trip to Congaree

That brings us to this week’s trip to Congaree National Park in South Carolina. One guidebook we checked out described Congaree as “the least popular national park.” That may or may not be fair, but it definitely made us curious. We had beautiful weather, so we packed up and drove from Myrtle Beach for a long day trip.

Getting there is part of the experience. For a while it feels like you’re just driving through rural South Carolina at random.  Down narrow roads, unmarked turns, mailboxes that seem disconnected from any visible house. And then, almost out of nowhere, the park entrance appears.

Congaree is different from many national parks. There aren’t scenic drives winding through mountains or overlooks where you can simply park and take in the view. This park is about being in the landscape.  As soon as you leave the visitor center, you’re walking.

It’s a swamp.  Ok, they repeatedly call it an “old growth bottomland hardwood forest”, but it is a swamp :). Which means bug spray is highly recommended (even though the park’s famous “Mosquito Meter” rated the day as only mild). 

Fortunately, Congaree has a raised boardwalk trail that lets you explore much of the park without sinking into the mud. It winds through towering hardwood forests (love those loblolly pines!) and past bald cypress trees rising out of the water. Part of the loop was under construction when we visited, so we got to go off the boardwalk and onto a dirt trail for a while. That meant stepping over cypress knees, dodging muddy patches, and occasionally wondering whether we were still on the trail.

But that’s the point. National parks aren’t meant to be perfectly polished experiences. They’re meant to remind you that nature is still bigger than you are.

Number Fourteen

By the end of the day we had checked off National Park #14. Not exactly a speedrun. But honestly, that’s fine. One of the unexpected gifts of this stage of our life is that we don’t have to rush anymore. Instead of racing through destinations, we can take the long walk, read the interpretive signs, and linger on the boardwalk a little longer.

The parks will still be there tomorrow. As we continue moving around the country, I’m hoping to gradually add more of them to the list. Not because I need to collect all 63 and not because they might just be the best travel value in America.  Because I can honestly say that I have enjoyed every one I have been to.

Beautiful places. Minimal cost. And nothing on the itinerary except the next step on the trail.

Eric on a loblolly pine.
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How Much Did the First 24 Hours in Myrtle Beach Cost? (And How It Compared to Omaha)

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A few months ago, I broke down what our first 24 hours cost in Omaha, Nebraska (How Much Did the First 24 Hours). Since we’ve now settled into Myrtle Beach for our next “slomad” stint, it felt fair to run the numbers again.  Same experiment. Different city. Slightly different results.

Lodging

In Omaha, we paid $1,500 per month for a furnished two-bedroom apartment with utilities included — about $50 per day.

Myrtle Beach is almost identical… with one small twist. The condo is also $1,500 per month, but there’s a 7% tax. That brings the total to $1,605 — or about $53.50 per day. Not a massive difference, but worth noting. Taxes matter, especially when you’re stacking medium-term stays.

Exercise

In Omaha, we signed up for the downtown YMCA almost immediately. It was walkable, affordable, and had a pool. Done.  Myrtle Beach was different.

I was working a lot during the first week, so I didn’t rush to find a gym. Instead, we walked on the beach. Free. Hard to beat that.  (We eventually found a swimming solution – more on that in a future post – but for day one, the Atlantic Ocean and our feet were enough.)

There’s something funny about paying for a treadmill when you’re living in an apartment overlooking miles of sand.

Library

In Omaha, we walked into the downtown public library on day one and got cards immediately.

In Myrtle Beach, we already knew the downtown branch from a previous visit. They even have a “snowbird-friendly” policy, which is perfect for medium-term residents like us. But here’s the difference: convenience.

The library here is a little further from our place, so we didn’t rush to get a temporary card. It can wait a couple of weeks. Of course, that’s the beauty of slower travel.  Not everything has to be solved on day one. Cost so far? $0.

Household Goods & Groceries

This is where the contrast really shows up. In Omaha, the apartment was set up for medium-term living. Starter consumables, decent storage, plenty of space. The Myrtle Beach condo? It’s clearly optimized for short-term rentals.

If you’re staying for a weekend, you don’t bring much. If you’re staying for two to three months… you bring more.  So our biggest purchase this time was storage.

  • A five-shelf storage rack to serve as a pantry and extra storage for non-clothing items
  • A shoe rack for the entryway (Beach life means shoes-off living, and we needed a system.)
    • We did buy a floor mat.  I argued for the Christmas mat that almost matched the one we bought for Omaha.  It was on clearance for $5 🙂 

Total for those three items: $59.

Groceries were $72, slightly higher than Omaha’s $52 first trip. The kitchen here is… compact. Let’s call it “cozy.” We don’t plan on cooking as much from scratch here, but we still need to have some cheap and filling meals we can prepare quickly so we aren’t eating out all the time..

The difference this time? Experience.

We brought more starter items with us (salt, pepper, Ziploc bags, odds and ends) so we didn’t have to repurchase as many basics. That small learning curve saved us money.

Dinner

In Omaha, we celebrated move-in day with a $37 buffet dinner.

In Myrtle Beach, after unpacking and installing storage racks, we kept it simpler. No celebratory splurge. We grabbed Chipotle after shopping and ate it on our new balcony.  Sometimes familiarity lowers the need for ceremony.

Myrtle Beach Day One Total

Lodging (daily equivalent): ~$53.50
Household storage: $54
Groceries: $72
Exercise: $0
Library: $0

Total: $179.50

Slightly higher than Omaha’s $152.15, but most of that difference was one-time storage purchases.

What’s the Real Difference?

The bigger contrast isn’t the dollars. It’s the feel.

Omaha felt urban, organized, infrastructure-ready. Walkable YMCA. Library next door. Plenty of space.  Built-in systems.

Myrtle Beach feels seasonal and recreational. Designed for short bursts of visitors rather than medium-term residents. More driving. Less built-in storage. More improvisation.

But it also offers something Omaha didn’t: A free, beautiful, natural gym outside our door.

Each city comes with tradeoffs.

Omaha had better infrastructure.
Myrtle Beach has better sunsets.

The startup costs are similar. The experience is different. And that’s part of the experiment.

When you slow travel, you start to see how much of your daily spending is shaped by the environment. Not just cost of living, but design of living.

We’re still collecting data, but one thing is clear: the more moves we make, the smarter (and cheaper) our transitions get.

Turns out you can amortize experience, too 🙂

How Do You Pack for Months Away from Home?

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3 Feb 2026 This post was written last fall. We are now preparing to do it again this week when we move to Myrtle Beach!

When we started planning this nomadic adventure, the question came up: How on earth do you pack for months away from home?

Surprisingly, it’s not that different from how I pack for a week-long business trip… at least in some categories. After all, laundry and Amazon delivery still exist in other states. And, if I’m honest, even when I’m home for months at a time, I usually catch myself wearing the same rotation of clothes over and over… the ones that are rewashed and put back on the top of the pile.  Here’s how it breaks down.

The Almost-the-Same Stuff

Clothes
 My “packing for months” wardrobe looks a lot like my “packing for a week” wardrobe, just with a few extras to account for different weather. If it works in July, I throw in a hoodie for October. Done.  (In some places those of us who are 6’7” and 270 lbs have to be careful because there isn’t a ready market for extended size clothes if we need to buy something in a pinch, but in Omaha? I think I will be OK) 

Katie says: I bring my big pink suitcase, Bertha, that I usually bring to Hawaii. It holds my clothes, swimsuits, snorkels, water shoes, sunscreen and the like. I also bring the medium and small pink suitcases and a blue one as well. Also some duffle bags. I have to have SOME variety in my clothes!

Technology
 I’ve already got my go-to travel tech bag: laptop, chargers, cables, noise-canceling headphones (for planes), bone conduction headphones (for everything else). The one new addition for this trip? A green screen backdrop. I bought it during COVID for working from home, and it’s been a lifesaver for quick, professional-looking Zoom calls, no matter what shenanigans are happening behind me.

Katie says: I pretty much do the same thing. I have a travel monitor as well as some tech stuff for my cameras.

Entertainment
Sure, most of our fun will come from exploring new places, but I’m also bringing a hard drive full of movies to go along with our subscription services.  Over the years, I have converted most of my books to digital, so my library lives on my phone already. It was a little sad selling my physical fiction collection to Half Price Books for pennies on the dollar, but at least my professional library found a good home.

Katie says: I brought coloring stuff to Nebraska but did not use it. I found myself taking pictures all the time and then editing those so I could share them with the world. I also had lunch with my cousin Scott if Eric was working. One thing about Omaha was that the entertainment was RIGHT THERE!

The Pretty-Different Stuff

Recreation
Katie and I love stand-up paddle boarding, so earlier this year we swapped our DFW paddle club membership (which we loved) for a couple of inflatable boards. They’re coming with us. We also swim for workouts, so our swim bags—goggles, suits, fins—are on the list. Omaha has a few good lap-swimming spots I’ve already scoped out.

Home Comforts
We’re renting furnished places, so we don’t need to bring much, but a few things made the cut: pillows (Katie is picky, and I like extras), our own sheets (because why not?), and our refrigerator magnet collection. We’ve been collecting these on road trips for years, they pack easily, and they’ll make any kitchen feel like ours. One splurge item: our countertop ice machine. I’ve gotten way too used to having perfect ice for my daily diet sodas.

Katie says: This really made us feel like we had a little bit of home with us. Plus we used our Roku and all of the Backdrops on there are the ones we had at home so that made my heart happy.

Consumables
We’re not loading up the car like a Costco delivery truck, but we will bring a box of some bulk items we already own and don’t want to rebuy immediately, plus some brands that might be harder to find.

Final Thoughts

Packing for months of nomadic travel sounds intimidating, but when you break it down, it’s not much different from a long vacation. Clothes, tech, and a few comforts from home—plus the paddle boards. Always the paddle boards.

Why Are We Slow Traveling the U.S.?

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One of our family goals was to get both boys to all 50 states before they were out of the house.  Sadly, circumstances (Link to other article) left Katie the boys stuck at Forty-nine.  That is still an accomplishment, but instead of scratching that off our list and settling into a “normal” retirement routine now that the kids are grown, we’ve decided to hit the road again— just a little differently this time.  We’re not tourists anymore.  Now we’re test-drivers. 

Texas has been great for us.  We got degrees, raised a family, had careers here.  It has never really felt like home to Katie, though.  And just because we live here now, that doesn’t mean we have to live here forever.  Maybe we will want our forever home to be in a cooler climate, so we don’t have to hide in the AC for 4-5 months a year?  Maybe we want actual elevation changes?  Trees?  Maybe fewer extremes… in weather and in political climate? 😊

Wait, You’re Not Traveling Internationally?

Nope — not yet.

Sure.  My FIRE people, the travel blogs, Instagram reels… everyone seems to be sipping espresso in Italy or eating $1 pho in Vietnam. And with Katie being a fluent Spanish speaker (and me speaking like at least a third grader), Central and South America seem like a natural fit.   We’re all for exploring those options… eventually. But for now, we’ve made a conscious choice to look domestically. Why?

1. Consulting work – I’m still doing some consulting, and it’s just easier to manage from within the U.S.  Travel, time zones, Zoom calls, internet reliability — it’s not glamorous, but it’s real life and it helps fund the adventure and minimize sequence of returns risk at the start of our early retirement.

2. Scouting our “forever home” – We don’t just want to travel for the sake of movement. We’re on a mission. We’ve done the tourist version of all 50 states, but now we want to live in them — or at least in some of the top contenders.

3. Logistical simplicity – No visas, no long-haul flights, no currency exchanges, and no language barriers. Plus, we can bring more stuff, cook in our own kitchen, and drive our own (new) car along the way.

Why 2–4 Month Stints?

At this point we think that staying at least two months is going to be our sweet spot.  Both of us have travelled a lot for short trips for vacation or business.  That wasn’t enough for a real look at different areas, though.

Month one is for figuring things out — Where the best grocery store is, how the weather really feels, can Katie get decent Mexican food, and how far the walking trails are from home.

Month two (and more) is when we settle in and get to know the rhythms. We will notice things like traffic patterns, neighborhood personalities, and whether the town actually has a good community feel or just good PR.

What We’re Looking For in a Home Base

We’re not just looking for postcard beauty or an affordable zip code (though those don’t hurt).  We’re looking for:

·   – A manageable cost of living

·   – Mild-to-moderate seasons

·   – A sense of community

·   – Access to nature without being hours from an airport with good connections

·   – Solid healthcare options

·   – Bonus points for walkability, water access, and a good public library system

The Unsexy Side of Domestic Slow Travel

Is it always going to be dreamy? Of course not!

Finding decent mid-term rentals has been tricky, especially with the rise of AirBnb fees (Link) and leases that either want a weekend stay or a full year commitment. We’ve had to get creative using furnishedfinder.com, Facebook groups, and even reaching out directly to landlords.

We also have to be careful not to just “vacation” our way through this. This isn’t about tourist attractions, restaurants, and photo opportunities.  It’s about real-life living — doing laundry, getting oil changes, finding the nearest urgent care.

And honestly, there’s going to be some emotional fatigue in packing up and starting over every few months. It will be especially problematic this Fall when my consulting schedule is a lot heavier than we had originally planned.  But we will balance it with some slow days, outdoor time, and the occasional indulgence.

What’s Next?

We’ve got a few areas on the shortlist already, largely based on my work schedule.  Omaha, Myrtle Beach, Seattle, etc.  Eventually, we might dip our toes into international waters. But for now, we’re looking forward to roaming America’s backroads, main streets, and regional gas station chains — one stay at a time.  And who knows? Maybe the next stop will end up feeling like home.